I have 99 problems... and today I'm going to write about Problem #1.
Here's the thing. It's easy to come up with problems, isn't it?
And the fun part is - you can come up with solutions!
This is a great pandemic of our society: Fixing, Fixing, Fixing, and more Fixing of things that don't actually need to be fixed at all!
Read: Creating problems that really don't exist.
The underlying belief of that?
There's something wrong with us and we need to be fixed.
Do you see?!
Isn't it oddly satisfying to come up with a problem? Ah hah! There we go. Now I know what's wrong.
Confirmation that we're right. There is something wrong with the world. Us.
BUT - that's not enough. Problems are problems. And the answer is to fix problems. What is the point otherwise? Just sit in your shitty pile of problems?
So fixing the problem is the perfect solution.
You see how this continues and continues and continues?
It's a never ending cycle. When we fix a problem (yay!) we get momentary satisfaction and then we find another problem to fix. And another. And another. The more we solve problems the more problems we'll have.
Now we've identified the Problem of all Problems. Why do we do this?
Now ask yourself this question: What is the payoff of the problem-solution cycle?
And even with all of those benefits, here's what the Problem is costing me:
Now ask yourself this question: What is this Problem-Solution cycle costing you?
Now I have another question for you: What is Possible outside of Problems?
Notice when you create unnecessary problems. Notice what it's costing you. Choose a new Possibility. Take action.
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